One
of the biggest challenges for students applying to undergraduate and graduate
schools these days is the overwhelming amount of information available about
their target schools. The modern marvel of the Internet has made it easy for applicants
to learn everything from student faculty ratios to a professor’s office hours
and research, but sometimes it’s easy to get sidetracked with all of that
information and lose sight of what is truly important.
Once
one’s parents get caught up in the application process, things can become even
more complicated.
“School
X doesn’t give any financial aid – we shouldn’t bother applying there.”
“School
Y doesn’t have an active enough Model UN club – you should only apply to
schools that are really active in the Model UN scene since you want to get into
international relations in the future…”
If
possible, try to focus on what matters to you.
According to Compass College Advisory Center, it takes 300-plus hours for
parents to help their child through the admissions process. A large part of
that time is likely wasted on worrying about details which are not critical.
If
you’re just starting the college selection process and are feeling overwhelmed,
here are a few tips:
•
Set up a weekly meeting with your parents to discuss college, or graduate
school research. Don’t allow every dinner discussion to focus on grades, test
scores and recent rumors you’ve heard about specific colleges.
•
Visit a few schools in person to get the feel for which schools suit your
personality and interests. When you and your family visit a school you’ll get a
better sense about the environment, the student body, the balance between work
and play, and even how the professors treat their students. These are all
important factors, but can’t truly be experienced unless you take a visit to
your target school.
•
Keep a running list of notes on your favorite colleges – the pros and cons – in
a shared folder in Dropbox. This will let your parents see which schools you
are researching and what you like about them from wherever they are.
• Do
your best to determine which colleges are reach, target and safety schools and
focus your visits on the reach and target schools first. Prioritize everything
accordingly.
• Take a deep breath. You will survive. Your
parents will survive. You will get into a school that suits you, make it
through the entire application process without killing each other, and be able
to look back on the entire application process and laugh in just a
few short months.
Keep your personal limitations in mind when you are applying for
schools. Especially if you are still taking classes, are working full or part-time
– sometimes it can be very easy to feel overwhelmed by the sheer amount of work
you have to do to make your application as perfect as possible.
And of course, if you’d like help thinking through your
application strategy and talking through your priorities – you can always reach
me at david@transcendadmissions.com.
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